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Season 5 Episode 6
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
In the powerful conclusion to our series on reconciled relationships, Ann Maree invites counselor Greg Wilson and biblical counselor Darby Strickland to discuss the difficult path of healing from domestic abuse. Greg and Darby offer deep insights into recognizing God’s presence amid suffering, stressing the need for patience and the priority of addressing an abuser’s behavior before focusing on the victim’s response. They unpack the impact of trauma and urge churches to stand by victims, even when human support falls short. This conversation is a compelling reminder of God’s unwavering work, even in our brokenness.
- Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims by Darby A. Strickland
- Something Scary Happened by Darby A. Strickland
- Something Sad Happened by Darby A. Strickland
- When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- Greg Wilson’s practice Soul Care Associates
- Christian Trauma Healing Network
- Called to Peace (Protect the Flock is a seminar Called to Peace offers to churches.)
- ChrisMoles.orgMen of Peace program
- PeaceWorks University is Chris Moles training arm
Season 5 Episode 5
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
Tune in for a powerful story of redemption, faith, and the life-changing impact of God's love. Ann Maree talks with both Charles and Renee, a couple who found healing from the depths of domestic abuse through God’s faithfulness. Renee shares how she clung to Romans 8:28 and Psalm 73:26 for comfort, while Charles describes his transformative journey inspired by 1 Peter 3:7. Together, they reveal how the Gospel renewed their hope, calling churches to address abuse with both justice and mercy.
- Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims by Darby A. Strickland
- Something Scary Happened by Darby A. Strickland
- Something Sad Happened by Darby A. Strickland
- When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor . . . and Yourself by Steve Corbett & Brian Fikkert
- When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- Called to Peace (Protect the Flock is a seminar Called to Peace offers to churches.)
- ChrisMoles.org
- Men of Peace program
- PeaceWorks University is Chris Moles training arm
- DASA Report
Season 5 Episode 4
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
Join us for a powerful conversation with Chris Moles, pastor and biblical counselor, who shares his deep insight into the sinister nature of domestic abuse and how it can be confronted and redeemed.
In this episode, Chris reflects on the complexities of coercive control, repentance, and the responsibility of power within relationships. He unpacks the distinct patterns of abuse, the weight of unrepented sin, and the journey from violence to gentleness. With thought-provoking analogies and real-life examples, Chris emphasizes the vital role of heart change, beyond mere behavior modification, in breaking abusive cycles.
See What You Made Me Do: Power, Control and Domestic Violence by Jess Hill
When Home Hurts:A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
Called to Peace (Protect the Flock is a seminar Called to Peace offers to churches.)
Men of Peace program
Season 5 Episode 3
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
Ann Maree introduces us to Charles, a husband who found his way back to his wife after a journey marked by abuse and redemption. With raw honesty, Charles talks about the abusive behaviors he once displayed, including his struggles with pornography and moments of deep despair that led him to threaten suicide. Through taking responsibility for his actions and seeking forgiveness, Charles witnessed a remarkable healing in his marriage. This episode sheds light on the difficult path of reconciliation in the context of domestic abuse, offering hope and insights for recognizing and addressing abusive behaviors. Join us for an inspiring conversation that highlights the power of grace, accountability, and the rare gift of true restoration in a broken marriage.
Concerned about domestic abuse?
We recommend:
- Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims by Darby A. Strickland
- When Home Hurts:A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- Called to Peace
- ChrisMoles.org
Season 5 Episode 2
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
A powerful conversation with Tabitha Westbrook, a licensed therapist and trauma specialist, as she sheds light on the challenging journey of reconciliation in abusive marriages—where it happens only 2-10% of the time. With compassion and insight, Tabitha discusses the essential role of humility and healthy shame in the healing process. She underscores the importance of a collaborative approach, involving advocates, counselors, and pastors, to effectively address domestic abuse. Tabitha also bravely challenges common misconceptions about pornography, affirming its destructive impact on relationships, equating it to adultery.
Tabitha Westbrook:
- Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality after Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control by Tabitha Westbrook
- Trauma Support Services
Resources mentioned:
- Church-Based Counseling series by Brad Hambrick.
- When Home Hurts:A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- Called to Peace
- ChrisMoles.org
- Peaceworks is Chris Moles training arm and Protect the Flock is a seminar Called to Peace offers to churches.
Season 5 Episode 1
Domestic Abuse Reconciled
Ann Maree delves deep into the nuances of Renee's story, highlighting the importance of discerning true repentance and recognizing the profound changes that signify real transformation. This episode is a beacon of hope, reminding us that even in the darkest circumstances, God's redemptive power can bring about incredible change.
Concerned about domestic abuse?
We recommend:
- Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims by Darby A. Strickland
- When Home Hurts:A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- Called to Peace
- ChrisMoles.org
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