All suffering is loss, but God leaves nothing unused in His plans. We help women see His redemptive thread throughout their circumstances and then look for opportunities to join with God in His transforming work.

Season 3 Episode 6

Season 3 Episode 5

Anna gives us insight into how God was with her during this difficult time, some of the ways that she found comfort, and what hope she would convey to pastors, leaders, and counselors who might be listening.

Join us on November 28, Episode 6 with Expert Contributor, Joy Forrest, Executive Director of Called to Peace.

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? : A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims  is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse.

Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders.

Trevor Laurence’s book Cursing with God: The Imprecatory Psalms and the Ethics of Christian Prayer

Diane Langberg’s full talk of excerpts played in today’s episode.

Season 3 Episode 4

We are delighted to sit at the feet of Beth Broom as she shares a wealth of insights, practical helps, and recovering identity beliefs for abuse survivors. Beth interacts with Anna's story with compassion and a perspective of whole person care.

Beth Broom’s website.

If you want to know more about the dynamics of domestic abuse go to Called to Peace.org. Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders in identifying the patterns of abuse.

Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book, When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders and make sure well first of all.

Christian Trauma Healing Network is the organization that we lead and you can go to CTHN.org or find us through Instagram and Facebook.

Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope by Chris Moles and written by Darby Strickland, Joy Forrest, Greg Wilson, Kirsten Christiansen and Beth Broom. So we’ll be excited to see that resource come out.

Season 3 Episode 3

Anna helps us understand her process by sharing some of the ways the Lord spoke to and carried her during a really dark time. How did our young, Christian Anna find herself here? Listen along to her story.

If you would like to know more about the dynamics of domestic abuse if you have questions go to Called to Peace.org 

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse.

And in addition, Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly hopeful, helpful and hopeful for church leaders.

When Helping Hurts by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert

Season 3 Episode 2

Impact of purity culture and those ‘dangerous female emotions,' as in circumstances such as Anna's and so many other girls and young women. Do boys have the ability to stop lust? Christian-like behavior and Christ-loving character. Have we got it backward? Sheila’s expertise on these matters is significant.

Sheila’s resources are found on her website, Sheila Wray Gregoire.com and  Bare Marriage.com for her blog and podcast.

If you want to know more about the dynamics of domestic abuse, I suggest you go to Called to Peace.org.

Darby Strickland’s book, Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders to identify the patterns of abuse.

And in addition, I recommend Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts and that’s particularly helpful for church leaders.

Season 3 Episode 1

Is the word 'abuse' too vague? We know it's terrible, but what IS it? We hear of manipulation and control but what does it look like? Join 'Anna' as she recounts (specific) details answering these questions and more.

If you would like to know more about the dynamics of domestic abuse if you have questions go to Called to Peace.org 

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse.

And in addition, Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly hopeful, helpful and hopeful for church leaders.

Season 2 Episode 6

Domestic Abuse
Is ‘trauma-informed’ only a secular concept? Darby’s new book? How is 1 Peter 3:1-6 misapplied? Darby Strickland is back to discuss hope and care-filled biblical counsel for women devastated by sexual abuse in marriage. Darby has abundant wealth to share on these and other topics with us.

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For details on the CCEF Conference on Trauma, Virginia Beach, visit https://www.ccef.org/conference/2023-national-conference/If you want to know more about domestic abuse I suggest you go to Called to Peace.org. A ministry specific to domestic abuse. You’ll find a lot of information and resources.

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse and in particular her chapter on marital sexual abuse in that book. Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders.

Season 2 Episode 5

Domestic Abuse
Michelle navigates the many layers as a survivor of domestic and specifically sexual abuse in marriage. We're also going to look at God's redemptive thread flowing throughout her circumstances. She shares just some of the ways God met her and some of the many thoughts and feelings she had to mediate during that time. May you be ministered to by Michelle's wisdom as she shares in our final discussion really helpful things to hear.

Brad Hambrick mentioned include the Church Cares program, and Making Sense of Forgiveness: Moving from Hurt toward Hope. and God’s Attributes: Rest For Life’s Struggles

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For details on the CCEF Conference on Trauma, Virginia Beach, visit https://www.ccef.org/conference/2023-national-conference/If you want to know more about domestic abuse I suggest you go to Called to Peace.org. A ministry specific to domestic abuse. You’ll find a lot of information and resources.

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse and in particular her chapter on marital sexual abuse in that book.

Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders.

Season 2 Bonus

Domestic Abuse
As we’ve heard, Brad Hambrick is a well-seasoned counselor who has a deep understanding of abuse victims and survivors, all the while having a heart to care. Brad again joins us in this bonus episode and interacts with Michelle’s story addressing the injustices of how abuse is being handled, and what proper biblical responses look like. An excellent resource for pastors who want to help and not hurt.

Brad Hambrick mentioned include the Church Cares program, and Making Sense of Forgiveness: Moving from Hurt toward Hope. and God’s Attributes: Rest For Life’s Struggles

For details on the CCEF Conference on Trauma, Virginia Beach, visit https://www.ccef.org/conference/2023-national-conference/If you want to know more about domestic abuse I suggest you go to Called to Peace.org. A ministry specific to domestic abuse. You’ll find a lot of information and resources.

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse and in particular her chapter on marital sexual abuse in that book.

Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders.

Enjoy this episode on our YouTube channel.

Season 2 Episode 4

Domestic Abuse
From his many opportunities, Brad openly shares powerful and practical insights to level up what it means to care. Brad and Ann Maree discuss phases of abuse, rightly discerning next steps, theological concepts needed to shepherd women well, and so much more. 

Brad Hambrick mentioned include the Church Cares program, and Making Sense of Forgiveness: Moving from Hurt toward Hope. and God’s Attributes: Rest For Life’s Struggles

For details on the CCEF Conference on Trauma, Virginia Beach, visit https://www.ccef.org/conference/2023-national-conference/If you want to know more about domestic abuse I suggest you go to Called to Peace.org. A ministry specific to domestic abuse. You’ll find a lot of information and resources.

Darby Strickland’s book Is It Abuse? is excellent for both victims and church leaders for identifying the patterns of abuse and in particular her chapter on marital sexual abuse in that book.

Dr. Jeremy Pierre and Dr. Greg Wilson’s book When Home Hurts is particularly helpful for church leaders.

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