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Season 6 Episode 8
Bearing Witness
In Episode 8, neurotheologian Dr. Jim Wilder joins us to explore the spiritual, psychological, and relational dynamics of ritual abuse and recovery. With gentle clarity, he unpacks the logic of evil, the power of gratitude, and the vital role of community in healing. This conversation offers profound insight for anyone seeking to walk with others through unspeakable trauma—without losing sight of who God created us to be.
- Episode 4 Self-Care
- Episode 6 Dr Heather Evans
- Armies of Enablers by Amos N. Guiora
Dr Jim Wilder Resources:
- Thrive conference. https://thrivetoday.org/
- The Red Dragon Cast Down: A Redemptive Approach to the Occult and Satanism
- Pandora Problem: Facing Narcissism in Leaders & Ourselves
- The Other Half of Church: Christian Community, Brain Science, and Overcoming Spiritual Stagnation
- Escaping Enemy Mode: How Our Brains Unit and Divide Us
Self-Care Resources:
- Christian Trauma Healing Network, Tools and Handouts
- Self-Regulation for Daily Triggers
- The Essential Skill to Regulate Your Nervous System
- Therapy in a Nutshell
- Justice From the Victim’s Perspective by Judith Herman
- Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
Informational Resources:
- Serving SRA Survivors: Satanic Ritual Abuse Recovery by Kay Elise Tolman
- Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion
- RAINN.org – Informational Support for sexual abuse survivors
- On the Threshold of Hope by Diane Langberg
- Escaping High-Control Religious Groups
Season 6 Episode 7
Bearing Witness
In one of the most difficult episodes of the season, Carya shares how ritual abuse and satanic worship were not only part of her story—but were carried out under the cover of Christian institutions. With clarity and courage, she invites listeners to reckon with the reality that evil can flourish where it should be most opposed. Her story confronts us with questions about spiritual deception, trauma, and the sacred call to protect the vulnerable. This episode bears witness to truth many would prefer to ignore.
SHOW NOTES:
- Episode 4 Self-Care
- Episode 6 Dr Heather Evans
- In Our First Lives by Diane Langberg
- Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices by Thomas Brooks
- When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church by Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson
- The Red Dragon Cast Down: A Redemptive Approach to the Occult and Satanism by Jim Wilder
- Shattered No More by Heather Gingrich
- Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, And Other Sex Offenders by Anna Salter
- The Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis
Self-Care Resources:
- Christian Trauma Healing Network, Tools and Handouts
- Self-Regulation for Daily Triggers
- The Essential Skill to Regulate Your Nervous System
- Therapy in a Nutshell
- Justice From the Victim’s Perspective by Judith Herman
- Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
- Escaping Enemy Mode by Dr Jim Wilder
Informational Resources:
- Serving SRA Survivors: Satanic Ritual Abuse Recovery by Kay Elise Tolman
- Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion
- RAINN.org – Informational Support for sexual abuse survivors
- On the Threshold of Hope by Diane Langberg
- Escaping High-Control Religious Groups
Season 6 Episode 6
Bearing Witness
With insight, compassion, and conviction, Dr Evans reminds us that change begins not with a rescue, but with relationship—and that listening is an act of justice.
- Understanding Complex Trauma and Post-Traumatic Growth in Survivors of Sex Trafficking: Foregrounding Women’s Voices for Effective Care and Prevention (Routledge Research in Women’s Mental Health) by Heather Evans
- In Our First Lives by Diane Langberg
- Voices of Survivors Project
Self-Care Resources:
- Christian Trauma Healing Network, Tools and Handouts
- Self-Regulation for Daily Triggers
- The Essential Skill to Regulate Your Nervous System
- Therapy in a Nutshell
- Justice From the Victim’s Perspective by Judith Herman
- Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
- Escaping Enemy Mode by Dr Jim Wilder
Informational Resources:
- Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion
- RAINN.org – Informational Support for sexual abuse survivors
- On the Threshold of Hope by Diane Langberg
- Escaping High-Control Religious Groups
Season 6 Episode 5
Bearing Witness
How do you prepare your heart and mind to hear stories of deep suffering without becoming overwhelmed — or walking away untouched?
In this today’s episode of the Safe to Hope podcast, Self-Care with Julia and Ann Maree, we pause before beginning this season’s difficult story to talk about something equally important: how to listen well.
Ann Maree is joined by licensed therapist and Help[H]er board member, Julia, to explore the weighty but necessary practice of bearing witness — not only to unimaginable trauma but also to the redemptive thread running through the darkness.
Together, they discuss what it means to listen with wisdom, vigilance, and compassion. You’ll hear practical self-care strategies, spiritual insights, and thoughtful encouragement for anyone who wants to enter into another’s story without losing themselves in the process.
Whether you’re a caregiver, pastor, counselor, advocate, or simply someone who desires to learn how to care well, this episode offers important guidance on how to hold hard stories — and hold yourself — with care.
Bearing Witness Episode 1 Introduction
Bearing Witness Episode 3 Julia, Ann Maree and Carya
Bearing Witness Episode 4 Self-Care
Informational Resources:
- Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion
- RAINN.org – Informational Support for sexual abuse survivors
- Kay Tolman’s Revelation Gateway Ministries
- On the Threshold of Hope: by Diane Langberg
- Escaping High-Control Religious Groups
Self-Care Resources:
- Christian Trauma Healing Network, Tools & Handouts
- Self-Regulation for Daily Triggers
- Therapy in a Nutshell
- Justice From the Victim’s Perspective by Judith Herman
- Honoring the Truth: A Response to the Backlash by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis